We arrived carrying clothes, food, tools and disassembled bunk beds.
Elders Stagg, Billings and Smith had been working on the beds for a couple months.
Sister Billings & Sister Stagg had sewn darling outfits for each child.
When we arrived, we were given some very sad information.
Philomene's daughter & her husband and their three children
had been visiting from France for the previous two weeks.
Just the night before, he had suddenly collapsed of a heart attack and died.
The boy & girl in dark blue and the girl in purple are her grandchildren,
who are obviously grieving, as Philomene cries. But, notice all the other children.
Most don't understand, but they know that Philomene is sad and so they are, too.
We asked her if it would be better for us to come back another day,
but she said, "No. Seeing all the children receive these
wonderful things will make me be happy and forget my sorrow."
Blessed are the little children, for of such is the Kingdom of Heaven. Every time we go to the orphanage, I realize anew why the Lord said we should become like them. This young girl was just a neighborhood child and not part of the orphanage, but she latched unto me as soon as we got out of the parked car to walk down the little lane and then stayed close when we got to our destination. Her clothes were dingy, worn and ragged. She seemed very interested in me. I tried to convey, by taking time with her, that she was important. I think her interest was mostly because I was white, but she also seemed to be studying me as a young girl might check out another female's style or makeup. As with all of the children whose paths we cross, we hope something we say or do helps them know they are a child of God. |
With Fils (our translator), Sister Billings is helping Philomene dispense the clothes. In front is Jonathan's sister. They have both lived at the orphanage all their lives. She started crying when we first arrived. She'd been so sad about the death, and then seeing all the things we'd brought for the little children, touched her. She didn't realize there was a dress for her, too, which made her cry even more. After her tears came smiles as she joined her brother, Jonathan, for a picture. A group picture with some of the kids in their new clothes. A similar picture, but I LOVE to see their smiles, again! Though this orphanage is poor as poor can be, we have seen how little that matters, because there is LOVE here. Philomene loves the children and they love her. They also love each other and help each other. That is the way it should be in every family If it's not, I guess we could start (with ourselves) to change that today. |
The wonderful miracle is that we were all "communicating" here! (Smiles, holding hands & hugs go FAR in making friends, even when you don't share a common language) |
This little spit fire of a girl was adamantly trying to tell me something in Lingala.
(I can say "Mbote" (hello) and "Mundele" (white person),
but that gets me only just so far in a conversation.
She raised her voice and repeated her comment, with animated gestures,
not comprehending why any ADULT would not be able to understand her.
Shortly afterward, she & the other children broke into a sponaneous song & dance.
They were all making dance moves to an African chant and having a fun time.
I tried to upload the video to YouTube, hoping to put a link on the blog.
I tried to upload the video to YouTube, hoping to put a link on the blog.
After 18 hrs. the video had only uploaded 70% so I gave up.
You will have to use your imagination as you look at the next few photos.
When John first told her that he wanted to take a picture,
she put her hands on her hips with a sassy smile.
But, then she went even further... with a full "model-pose!! |
The dancing raised the spirits of Philomene's granddaughter, and Jonathan was able to be provide further distraction playing this hand game. So many times, I've noticed how he & Arnold show care for the children and others. Right after this, I tried the game with him, too (and did badly!) That made her laugh. She, her brothers and mother have now returned to France. They aren't members of the Church, but because they had enjoyed attending here, Philomene's son-in-law told the family, the night before he died, that they could find an LDS Church back in France. |
Elder & Sister Billings (Construction Training) have picked up the torch
and were instrumental in leading construction of bunk beds and sewing new clothes.
These children and adults behind him were passersby who sometimes paused and watched.
You can also see some more of the interested adult neighbors.
We hope it is just harmless curiosity, but sometimes it's with envy or theft in mind.
President (his real name) and Cedrick were two of Elder Billings' graduates.
They voluntarily came on this day to help reassemble the bunk beds.
How many young men would be willing to give up a Saturday to help children?
This little fellow suddenly began crying
and no one could figure out why or help him stop.
We finally learned that his mother had gone shopping & he was crying for her.
(African "orphans" sometimes have a parent who simply can't care for them)
But, soon all was well. George has an amazing ability to calm fretting children. On the other hand, I have a tendency to make them cry harder. |
When given permission, the kids squealed & scrambled onto the first bunk.
They were so excited!
Their previous "beds" were mats on this dark & dingy concrete floor.
Philomene told them to wave & say "Thank You!"
She NEVER neglects to instruct them in good manners,
but their smiles are reward enough.
My little shadow and some other neighborhood children
joined the children of the orphanage for a little visit.
(you can tell which are which by the new clothes)
In the background is President Lono, who stayed despite a busy schedule.
As we were leaving, this little neighborhood boy, tried to let me know that HE knew some English. The "thumbs up" seems to be a universal symbol. |
As I tried to get a picture of all of them, they kept crowding right up to me. With rudimentary French & hand motions, I was finally able to get them to "stay". Not to be outdone by the first little boy, they all showed me that they, too, knew "thumbs up". |
For most children, it is intriguing and important to shake a mundele's hand. Some want to see if the white rubs off, some simply consider it good luck or a rare opportunity. And SOME, when the opportunity does come, decide at the last minute that it is just TOO risky! The neighborhood mothers thought it was hilarious that I was teasing their kids... The kids started saying "Mundele!" I pretended to misunderstand them and said, "NO! ... You are not a mundele! I am a mundele!!" In this picture, some are playing a sort of "Come Near Bravely & Then Run Far Quickly" game. Children are wonderful! |